For those of you who have never read the following essay by Emily Perl Kingsley about having a child with special needs, I highly recommend checking it out.
www.journeyofhearts.org/kirstimd/holland.htm
Since I had Jack, many people have brought this essay to my attention, but I was first exposed to it four years ago when I was in my pediatrics course in nursing school. We spend nearly a week learning about Down Syndrome, and we watched an inspirational video about children with Downs which included this essay. I remember being so incredibly uplifted and moved by the essay that I immediately called my sister Kelly and said to her, "You know ... I think if I ever had a child with Down Syndrome, I would be okay with it." Kelly reminded me of this conversation when I was in the hospital, just having given birth to Jack. It's amazing how the world works, isn't it? And, thanks, Kelly, for reminding me of my own inner strength ...
Did I mention that, in college, I studied abroad in Italy and that Robert studied in Holland?!?!
ReplyDeletejust wanted to tell you how much i love reading your blog kooks. love you guys so much.
ReplyDeleteI vividly remember that conversation and you showing me the essay! There is a plan for all of us, huh?! I would love to see that video sometime - do you remember what it was called?
ReplyDeleteKorey, I'm so excited to have another wonderful blog to read. I am loving hearing about you and Robert and Jack and the journey you are on! Congrats on your beautiful new family :)
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